Overcoming Anxiety

What makes you feel anxious? Being late or unprepared for work? Maybe unresolved interpersonal conflict? Airline travel? Public speaking? Los- ing love? Serious illness or a friend’s death? Pressures from the trivial to the traumatic can prompt feelings of fearfulness or apprehension?

Once at a booksellers’ convention, my wife and I spent an exhausting day promoting a new book. Late that night, we stood in a circle with other authors and our publisher engaged in conversation. I had to leave her side momentarily to attend to a matter.

Returning to the circle, I walked up behind my wife and began to mas- sage her shoulders. She seemed to enjoy this, so I started to put my arms around her waist to give her a hug. Just then, I looked up at the opposite side of the circle and saw…my wife. I had my hands on the wrong woman!

In that instant, I knew the true meaning of fear. Confusion clouded my mind. Heat enveloped my back, shoulders, neck and head. My face reddened; my stomach knotted.

You’ve probably had embarrassing moments that generate anxiety, too. What about more serious causes?

Fear?

Fear  of  death  is  perhaps  humans’ greatest fear. In college, the student living next door to me was struck and killed instantly by lightening one afternoon. Shock gripped our fraternity house. “What does it mean if life can be snuffed out in an instant?” my friends asked. “Is there a life after death and, if so, how can we experience it?” Confusion and anxiety reigned.

If you can’t answer the question “What will happen when you die?” you may become anxious.

How can you find real peace in a chaotic world? Consider a possible solution. It involves the spiritual realm. As a university student, I wrote a paper for an abnormal psychology class investigating a biblical therapy for anxiety. I had come to faith in Christ as a freshman and found it brought me peace of mind. Complex psychological disorders often stem from basic problems like anxiety, problems for which faith offers practical solutions.

I sent a copy of my paper to the author of our textbook, a prominent UCLA psychologist. A month later, he replied that he liked the paper and asked permission to quote from it in his revised textbook.

This professor felt the principles in the paper—which certainly were not original with me—had both academic and personal relevance. Months later, we met at his home in Malibu overlooking the Pacific Ocean. As we sat in his back yard, this professor told me he lacked peace and wanted to know God personally. I shared with him one of Jesus’ statements: “God so loved the world that he gave his only Son, so that everyone who believes in him will not perish but have eternal life.” 1

We discussed God’s unconditional love for us, our dilemma of being unplugged from Him and the flaws (selfishness and “sins”) that result. I noted that Jesus, through His death in our place and return to life, came to plug us back into God by paying the penalty we owed for our sins.

Finding Real

This professor decided to place his faith in God and asked Jesus to forgive him and enter his life. We kept in touch. Later, over the phone, he told me that as he looked out over the ocean and saw the setting sun, “I really believe I’m a part of all this. Before I didn’t, but now I do.” He was seeing how he fit into God’s universe. An internationally acclaimed scholar linked up with, if you will, the greatest Psychologist.

One of Jesus’ earlier followers wrote to some friends about a divine aid for anxiety: “Don’t worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank Him for all He has done. If you do this, you will experience God’s peace, which is far more wonderful than the human mind can understand. His peace will guard your hearts and minds as you live in Christ Jesus.”2

Faith in God does not make life perfect and is no automatic solution to anxiety. Illness, chemical imbalance, emotional wounds and more can hamper coping. But a good starting place is to become linked with the One who loves us and knows best what makes us fulfilled.

Might it be time for you to consider Him?

BIBLICAL REFERENCES:

1) John 3:16 NLT.

2) Philippians 4:6-7 NLT.

Rusty Wright is an author and university lecturer with Probe.org who has spoken on six continents. He holds Bachelor of Science (psychology) and Master of Theology degrees from Duke and Oxford universities, respectively. www.probe.org/Rusty

© 2006 by Rusty Wright. Used by permission of the author. All rights reserved.